This reflection captures the harsh realities many women face in the institution of marriage, particularly when societal expectations take precedence over individual well-being. From an Islamic perspective, marriage is intended to be a source of tranquility (sakan), love (mawaddah), and mercy (rahmah), as the Qur’an beautifully states: “And among His signs is this: He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you love and mercy” (Qur’an 30:21). Any relationship that fosters harm, abuse, or oppression strays far from the divine purpose of marriage. Islam does not condone suffering in silence; it empowers individuals to seek justice and safety. When families prioritize societal approval over the safety and happiness of their daughters, they fail in their sacred duty to protect and support them. Endurance in the face of abuse is not a virtue in Islam .. it is a cycle that must be broken. Instead, communities should foster an environment where women are valued beyond their marital status and supported in making choices that preserve their dignity, safety, and peace. Real love, as Islam teaches, uplifts and nurtures, never diminishes. Let us work collectively to uphold this ideal in our families and communities.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and insightful comment. I completely agree that the concept of marriage in Islam, as a source of tranquility, love, and mercy, aligns perfectly with the idea that no woman should endure harm or abuse in silence. Your reflection truly emphasizes the importance of supporting women and prioritizing their well-being over societal expectations. May Allah ease all our affairs. I appreciate you sharing this perspective.💕
I love this:”we must protect ourselves, our peace, and our futures as best as we can. And when things go wrong, I pray we have the strength and support to walk away. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary because our lives and happiness are worth it. I hope for a future where no woman is told to endure, and every woman is told she deserves better. “
This reflection captures the harsh realities many women face in the institution of marriage, particularly when societal expectations take precedence over individual well-being. From an Islamic perspective, marriage is intended to be a source of tranquility (sakan), love (mawaddah), and mercy (rahmah), as the Qur’an beautifully states: “And among His signs is this: He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you love and mercy” (Qur’an 30:21). Any relationship that fosters harm, abuse, or oppression strays far from the divine purpose of marriage. Islam does not condone suffering in silence; it empowers individuals to seek justice and safety. When families prioritize societal approval over the safety and happiness of their daughters, they fail in their sacred duty to protect and support them. Endurance in the face of abuse is not a virtue in Islam .. it is a cycle that must be broken. Instead, communities should foster an environment where women are valued beyond their marital status and supported in making choices that preserve their dignity, safety, and peace. Real love, as Islam teaches, uplifts and nurtures, never diminishes. Let us work collectively to uphold this ideal in our families and communities.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and insightful comment. I completely agree that the concept of marriage in Islam, as a source of tranquility, love, and mercy, aligns perfectly with the idea that no woman should endure harm or abuse in silence. Your reflection truly emphasizes the importance of supporting women and prioritizing their well-being over societal expectations. May Allah ease all our affairs. I appreciate you sharing this perspective.💕
Mashallah beautifully said!
it makes me so happy knowing the last paragraph resonated with you🫶🏽
It truly did! Your words really hit home. Thanks for sharing such a beautiful piece ❤
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You write beautifully👏🫶
Thank you so much, Fatimah💕
Thank you Fatiah🌸
Thank you for reading, Iyanu💕
I love this:”we must protect ourselves, our peace, and our futures as best as we can. And when things go wrong, I pray we have the strength and support to walk away. It’s not easy, but it’s necessary because our lives and happiness are worth it. I hope for a future where no woman is told to endure, and every woman is told she deserves better. “
Thank you so much, Zainab! I’m glad that part resonated with you.❤